9.4.12

A to Z money guide-there once was a girl style

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this weekend i finally got around to reading a glamour mag that's been sitting on my bedside table for 3 months. they had an article the A-to-Z Money guide and i thought it was a cute idea.
that being said, some of theirs weren't my fave...so, here is my version!

A: assets! know your assets. your car, mutual funds, home (if you're lucky enough to own), stocks, savings etc are all your assets. the goal is to have more assets than you do debt and continue building them.

B: bargain shop. if you need it, find it cheap. it just takes a little research and some patience and you can get a lot more for your money. one of my fave bargain money savers is this...

C: charity-give back and you will get back. i am a firm believer in giving back, even in the smallest of amounts. something about putting that energy out in the universe brings it back around. i choose kiva and love the feeling i get each time i donate!

D: debt. know the difference between good debt and bad debt. get rid of the bad debt first, and then focus on getting rid of the good debt. crawling out of debt will also have big impact on your net worth!

E: education. my student loans were a big pain in the ass to pay off but i don't know where i would be without my education. i only owed about $18,500 for my undergrad and graduate degrees, but the national average for student loan debt (only for an undergrad degree) is an astronomical $25,250-and the problem is kids don't know how to handle all of that debt when they graduate. pay it off, and do it as quick as you can.

F: frugality. this was big for me. i had to learn to be a bit more frugal...or really, frugal at all.

G: girlfriends- or any friends at all. if you have a financial goal, or are even just trying to cut back, be honest with your friends about your situation. often times, we fall into doing things our friends want to do even though we haven't budgeted or planned for it. you have to learn to either say no, or offer another (cheaper) suggestion.

H: home ownership. i am just dying to buy a house-and they say now is the time. so if you can get out of the vicious renters circle it could really save you in the long run! here's a related post from last summer.

I: invest. it's hard to forget we won't be young forever, but we won't....sorry kids. start thinking about retirement, and put some of that cash in a roth ira or the market and act like it never existed. you'll thank me later.

J: just keep swimming! finances are like anything else, you will have set backs but you just have to keep moving forward. it's like a diet...just because you have one day of pizza and beer doesn't mean you should start the whole damn thing over. if you have an occasional splurge, it's okay, just pick right back up where you left off.


K: keeping up with the jones' will get you nowhere fast. don't worry about what everyone else is doing. do what you want/can afford to do!! nothing agitates me more than people who spend your money for you-so don't allow it to happen. be strong and just assume everyone that spends wildly is up to their eyeballs in credit card debt...that always makes me feel better ;)

L: learn as much as you can. i didn't know anything about finances when i started down this road. i went to the library and checked out as many books as i could find and started there. i loved you're so money by farnoosh torabi.

M: Mint.com is a huge game changer for us young adults trying to map out our finances and ultimately understand where on earth all that money goes. you can link all of your accounts, credit cards, assets etc and get a clear view of your financial situation without jumping around to a dozen different sites.i'm a big fan!

N: nix the non needs. when i started my lockdown i got rid of pretty much everything i didn't need. i didn't have AC or internet in my apartment, i canceled my online memberships, wine club, and magazine subscriptions. i quit going out to eat as much, going to the movies, etc. even if you only do this for a short while you can make big progress by cutting little things. challenge yourself with a small goal like: for the next three months i will not buy any coffee shop coffee (or whatever your financial pain point is).

O: opt for mending. try and fix the things you have rather than buy new.

P: pay attention. read! there are all kinds of cheap or free activities in your city. check out the paper, or local mags to find concerts, farmers markets, comedy, movies, festivals, sports etc all for cheap or free!

Q: quotes. get quotes for your car insurance. i found out i was paying WAY more than i needed to be for car insurance. i saved over HALF by filling out a few online questionnaires and comparing costs.

R: rewards. my favorite thing in the (financial) world is rewards. i'm points hungry so i had to try and find a way to make it work for me instead of hurt me like it had been. i am a big fan of credit cards-if you pay them off monthly and don't have to pay fees. i think credit cards get a bad rap. here's why... because of my credit cards i seldom pay for travel and get a lot of additional rewards. you just have to play the game, be smart, and do it better than the credit card companies plan on!

S: stay focused. set financial goals and stick to them. every time i catch myself 30 minutes deep in an anthropologie swoon session i always reiterate to myself that having an additional $10,000 in savings at the end of the year will mean more to me that that totally adorable-must have-on sale apron (that will hang forever in the closet in my kitchen, never to be worn).

T: thrift stores- i've never been one of those people that can go into a thrift store and find that just right thing i have been dying to have. my friend tara is genius at it, but i can't seem to catch a break. however, i do like to do a closet overhaul every once in a while and take my things to buffalo exchange, or donate them to charity. cleaning out my closet helps me see how much i really do have, and occasionally i make a buck or two trading them in!

U: understand routes other people have taken to find financial freedom. when i started my lockdown, i think i read every financial blog out there to try and better understand my options and get good ideas. of course, and then she saved is a great one, and i also like the simple dollar.

V: verify the information of your credit report annually. nothing can destroy your financial future worse than identity theft or a terrible credit score.

W: wastes! evaluate your lifestyle and your spending and you can figure out pretty quickly what you are wasting money on and then make a plan for dealing with it. i did a post on common money wastes a while back. my big wastes before i started paying attention to spending were coffee, cocktails and cosmetics! all areas i have scaled back or cut completely.

X: eXcel spreadsheets. they have changed my life. tracking all of my financial information on an excel spreadsheet makes it easier for me to track, budget and plan my finances. i have a spreadsheet for just about everything from goals, to annual budgets, to net worth. whenever i get the urge to shop online i go mess around with my financial planning spreadsheet instead. nerd alert!

Y: YOU are in charge of your finances, so start acting like it!! gen y-ers have a problem, for whatever reason, with being responsible for their money. of course this isn't true of everyone in our generation, but i think it's a common problem. take control. learn!! be in charge. be proactive! when i started my lockdown i did not feel very "in control" but now i feel like i have a pretty firm grasp and also, a plan!!! it makes all the difference.

Z: ZERO debt!!! seriously this is a feeling unlike any other!

xoxo
ashleycolean

4.4.12

month 11!!!

{i saw this on my sisters pintrest today and loved it!}
the excitement of being out of loan debt came and went and so did march. i went out and spent wildly the weekend after i paid off the student loan, which i still biting me in the ass. gallivanting around lululemon like paying $105 for spandex pants is rational set me up for a bit of buyers remorse, but that's alright. i dooo love my wunderunders!

i scaled it back on the debt payments and the saving for a minute last month, but plan to get back into it whole heartily in april and may!

on a thrifty note, i spent $129 and got 3 round trip flights back home to kansas city over the next few months!

also, in march, my dear friend jamie got engaged and asked me to be her maid of honor. i am so happy that she is a mindful person with rational expectations when it comes to her wedding. it is going to be such a fantastic day! i need to start figuring out a little bachelorette party action-in a financially mindful way :)

i also decided this month with the weather getting gorgeous outside that i will drop my bar method monthly membership for the summer months, which will save me $145/month.

total debt paid this month: $360
total money saved this month: $475

not terrible, but nothing to write home about either. how did i ever have those HUGE months of debt payment. man, it feels impossible now, even though i just did it!

total debt payment in 11 months: $18,888.07
total saved in 11 months: ($1,547.82)  (i took out to pay down my loan...)

focusing on that savings goal is key for me for a ton of reasons over the next few months! i really want to get that back to where it was when i started last may and then some! here's to adding ten grand to the pot!

xoxo ashleycolean

23.3.12

shake it up

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i've been considering an experiment. for three reasons, 1. save money, 2. tackle a couple of these pounds that make my 3 mile beginning miles feel like triathlons, and 3. curiosity.

i posed the question the other day, what would happen if i ate only protein powder 5x a day for a week?

as it turns out, it would be pretty rough on the ol' body-but imagine the savings and simplicity if it wasn't bad for you.

the stress of the $2,500 looming on that no interest card is plaguing my life and keeping me from necessary things, like-the grocery store. i've been working weekends with tails, and watching pennies but i'm still struggling to get a grip on it. it doesn't seem that protein shakes will be the answer, so...

the search continues.
xoxo ashleycolean

22.3.12

prizes

i feel like i am an entry lunatic lately. want my email? sure! want my address for a sample? no problem!! want an hour of my time for 10 miles on (insert any) airline point programs? um-k!
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so when i saw anna was doing a cool giveaway it was no different. i tweeted and blogged and facebooked about it to increase my chances to win this great print for my apartment. i'm thinking in my walk in closet. remind me, daily, that i have SO MUCH STUFF and, in fact, don't need that $239 dress from jcrew.

want less.
xoxo ashleycolean

9.3.12

sometimes-

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I watch guilty pleasures like  the challenge-battle of the exes. i can't help it...i love it

I'm glad it's cold outside because i own great sweaters

I wish I could just pay someone good money to wash and blowdry my hair every morning

I love discovering unexpected movie gems like  the film on kony this week

I feel like a 5 year-old when things are unfair

I feel like it's one of the world's great injustices when american's take their education for granted

I write a blog post and realize that my life is ultimately not very interesting

I feel inspired to be a better person when i spend time with my friend tara

5.3.12

eight week update

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at the start of the year i posted about my 2012 goals. it's my anti resolution, and i do it every year. normally the list is much larger and significantly less...significant, but in an effort to actually do something with purpose this year i made some adjustments. plus, i doubt it would be too terribly interesting that i completed my "go to a movie alone" goal. alas.

i thought i'd give ya'll an update on my anti resolution list.

here's my list for 2012:

1. pay off my student loan DONE! WHOO HOO!!

2. go on a vacation to another country- this is feeling terribly distant right now, but i am going to try my hardest to make it happen

3. do something spontaneous (i know it seems like i'm planning it)-lack of spontaneity thus far

4. run another marathon (or at least a half)-signed up for a half and i have been hitting the treadmill again, which actually feels kind of good/miserable all rolled into one

5. get back in shape (aka lose the 25 lbs i put on since my last marathon-ugh)-HA

6. read 3 classic novels that are often referenced (help with these options would be great)- i haven't read so much as the hunger games, much less a classic yet this year

7. hug at least one person everyday-i gotta start hugging more. although, yesterday, i gave two hugs, TWO

8. be more present (try and live for the day not for the future)-i'm working hard on this, but it's a complete mental shift so it's a bit of a slow process. bare with me

9. put at least $6,000 $10,000 in savings-i updated the goal because if i can pay down $16k in 10 months, i can save $10k in a year...damn it!

10. (still under consideration)-help a sista out!

2.3.12

month 10!!!

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february was a love month, that's for sure, but it was love of money for me! i officially paid down all of my student loan debt this month-which felt ahh-mahh-zing! seriously, i was so happy, and proud of myself.

i never would have thought in my first month that i would be able to pay down close to $15,000 in debt in 10 months time. no way. i had high hopes, but didn't think they were terribly realistic.

the wild thing about it, is i still did pretty much everything i wanted. i still bought things, and went out to dinner, and took a couple of flights home to see my family. the only difference, i was mindful. i was conscious about my spending and the decisions i was making with my money.

imagine, if i was super duper serious about it what could have happened. the success story in this month, friends, is that making small changes can provide some pretty big rewards!

this month i paid down a total of $3,222.51-all but $360 of that went to my student loan. this month i had some boosts...my tax refund (which i put down on the loan in its entirety), a really nice surprise 'help' check from my mom for $250, and i put the majority of my purchases on my no interest credit card (which now i have to pay off).

my next goal is to beef up the savings. at the start of the year i decided i wanted to put a minimum of $6,000 in savings this year...however, looking at that now, it seems SUPER low. how about $10k?? i think i can make $10k happen!

so, my total debt down this month: $3,222.51!!
total debt down since the beginning: $16,510.25!!

man o man! i'm going to try for another $1,500 over the next two months to make the year a cool, $18,000.

bada-boom!
xoxo ashleycolean